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~ Thursday, June 19 ~

What To Look For In a Guy: The Right Man You Should Date or Marry



One secret to a happy life: finding the right guy you should date or even marry and this is no easy task. Here is a good advice from a father to his daughter in finding someone that is just fit for her. Afterall, it is your father who watched you grow and thus he wants you to fall into the right hands. This is sweet and touching at the same time. A father’s recipe for the right guy.

1. Date a boy who makes you happy, but marry him only if he makes you laugh deep-belly rumbles that hurt your ribs as they expand outwards. Date him when he sees that you’re hurting and he gives you a moment to feel that pain like a handprint spreading across your consciousness, marry him only if he can make you smile even while you’re gross sobbing. The world is not a kind place. You will feel a lot of pain. Make sure you are with someone who makes it all bearable. Humor is an excellent gauge of intelligence. Life gets boring. Find someone who makes the banal interesting.

2. Make sure he has scars on the back of his hands, it’s a good sign he has experience either fighting or making things - creation is an act of selflessness and bruised knuckles are a good sign he knows how to defend himself. You’ve got too much soul to be handled by someone who has never been passionate. If he’s never thrown a punch, let him at least have tasted the insanity of bringing an idea into existence. Rough palms are better than soft ones, they have been salted by this earth and made into leather. Callouses are evidence he has lived, that he has broken skin and been in pain over and over and over again and still came back to the source of it. People rub against each other. Don’t marry him if he can’t handle even a little blister.

3. Before you say yes, get him angry. See him scared, see him wanting, see him sick. Stress changes a person. Find out if he drinks and if he does, get him drunk - you’ll learn more about his sober thoughts. Discover his addictions. See if he puts you in front of them. You can’t change people, baby girl. If they are made one way, it doesn’t just wear off. If you hate how he acts when he’s out of it now, you’re going to hate it much worse eight years down the road. You might love him to bits but it doesn’t change that some people just don’t fit.

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~ Tuesday, February 18 ~

new book alert…

the happiness project by gretchen rubin

on a very mysterious mission to baltimore last memorial day, i came across this book in the airport bookstore. as soon as i started reading, i wanted to do one of these projects on my own. fast forward to now, i’m finally starting it. 

a little overview:

the book is about a NY lawyer turn stay-at-home mother who seems to have everything but doesnt feel she’s as happy as she should/could be so she sets out on a year long project to achieve her ideal happiness. 

it’s a really good read, and she comes up with a lot of logical and good points. i’m beginning my project on march 1st, so we’ll see how it goes.

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welcome back.

in an attempt to do something with my life and time, ive decided to resume with my blog. i know, i know, this is the 97th time ive tried to do this, but. whatever. 

a lot has changed since june of 2012. (omg has it really been that long?) lets see…what have i done?

moved out. gotten a really good job, with 2 promotions. gone back to school. quit school again. turned 25. broke up, gotten back together, broken up, gotten back together, bro….you get it. gained weight. had 27 health scares. battled depression, gotten over it, lived a little and learned even more. i guess you can say ive grown up a little bit.

i dont really know what i want from this blog yet, but i know i want to reach as many people as i can..

so here we go. lisa’s blog take 100!

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